If you’re trying to organize all the details for your first Disney vacation and you’re a planner like me, you’re probably making the same mistakes I did when I planned our first Disney trip. I was so excited for our first Disney trip with the kids, I spent months prepping to make sure everything went just perfectly. But there’s a big difference between Disney planning and Disney on the ground in real life. Especially if you’re bringing kids. Learn the mistakes to avoid and my husband’s brilliant solution that completely saved our Disney vacation from absolute disaster.
Mistakes I Made in Disney Planning
As first time visitors to Disney World, I did a TON of research on what we should see with our girls. I knew there was no way we’d ever come close to seeing it all so I wanted to be sure we didn’t miss something really awesome because we were distracted by 50 other cool things first. Knowing that we needed a game plan for suriving Disney with a toddler, I had the list of things to see, in which order, all figured out ahead of time. I wanted to maximize what we saw with the least amount of waiting in line and working within the limited number of hours I knew we’d have each day. I knew we’d be overwhelmed once we got into the parks and I thought having an organized checklist would help guide us through the chaos. I obsessively researched:
Touring plans that promised we would avoid the worst of the crowds Lists of the best rides and attractions for our kids’ ages Rope drop strategies so we could be first in line Reservations tips and how to use the Disney app to maximize what we did
NONE of that effort worked. Here’s what happened instead:
Our Disastrous First Day at Disney
Our Solution
How to Use the One Thing Rule
If you want to save your Disney vacation from disaster, here’s how I recommend implementing the One Thing Rule for your own family before you go: As first timers staying offsite, we didn’t realize it would end up taking an entire hour to leave our car and actually get on to the grounds because of:
shuttle trains lines a monorail jump over the pond
We missed rope drop altogether. After hustling our kids through the park immediately after entry, we arrived at Dumbo only to discover a 30 minute wait already exists. Panic set in. We had already been “on the go” for 2.5 hours between getting ready at the hotel and transportation to the park. We had ran past so many appealing looking attractions to get to Dumbo that both girls were crying from disappointment. All that time and we still hadn’t done one single fun thing. And now we discovered we should wait in line for another 30 minutes?? The Winnie the Pooh ride was right there but we needed to get Fast Passes in order to ride it if we didn’t want to wait 45 minutes. Now I was nearly in tears, too. All that planning, all that hard work ahead of time to prevent this exact scenario. I was miserable. Then my husband Tim came to my rescue. It gave us time to collect ourselves for a minute and then Tim invented the Single Most Brilliant Disney Planning Tip you will ever find: Lower that bar waaaay down if you want to save your sanity. Tim’s magic rule is simple: One Thing Per Day. That’s it. Go into the park expecting to see One Single Thing. Once you’ve accomplished your agreed-upon One Thing you have your whole day ahead of you. It’s like every single hour after that is a magic bonus hour because you’ve already done your One Thing. I’m not even kidding how this simple mindset tweak changed our attitudes and outlook and absolutely saved our family vacation. As a family we agreed that our One Thing was to see Mickey Mouse in his dressing room off of Main Street and have our picture taken with him. With our plan in mind, we entered the waiting line for Mickey but the girls were Happy! They knew exactly what we were doing and why we had to wait. MICKEY! We were all excited, relaxed, and enjoyed our short wait to meet the mouse. We strolled up Main Street at a much slower pace and I spent maybe 20 minutes just taking pictures of the girls wandering around and happy with their new mouse ears. Those pictures are some of the best from our entire trip. We spent most of the rest of our day in Tomorrow Land on the Buzz Lightyear ride. Everyone enjoyed it so much we did it twice. Because, why not?? We’d already done our One Thing! “We paid all this money to Disney only to see one thing?? Are you CRAZY?” I am not suggesting you only SEE one thing, I’m suggesting you only PLAN for one important thing. This is a mindset solution that is crucial to family happiness at the Disney theme parks. We spent the entire day at Magic Kingdom. We didn’t see “just one thing,” we saw dozens and dozens of magical things during our time there and had an amazing time together as a family. But we only let one main wish list item guide our schedule for each day. For first timers, read through inspiration lists or watch some Disney Parks videos together to come up with ideas if they don’t know where to start. But everyone only gets to pick ONE thing to add to the Master List. The One Thing can be:
A Ride A Character to Meet A Food to Try A Show to Watch (Fireworks, Parade, Live Entertainment, etc.)
Need some tips for where to start? Here are some lists of things our family has added to our own Disney One Thing plan: At this point in the vacation planning, you should arrange your entire itinerary so that everyone has their most magic wish (within reason and budget) answered on your trip. If you have fewer wishes than days in the parks, discuss as a family which additional Disney goals you want to add to the itinerary.
Eat a Mickey Ice Cream Pop or one of our all-time favorite Disney treats See the Castle Get a New Pair of Mickey Ears Watch a Parade Listen to the Music on Main Street Trade Disney Pins at the Disney Stores
Remember, just because you’re sticking to just One Big Thing, doesn’t mean you won’t do a ton of fun things every day. Put these easy items on your list and have fun checking them off as you go! It is easier for everyone to be more flexible with on the fly decisions that have to be made in order to make sure the One Thing happens that day: “No, we can’t wait 25 minutes in this line, because we have to make sure to ride the Seven Dwarfs Mine Train today. We’ll check back with this ride as soon as we do our One Thing.” We chose them intentionally and enjoyed the heck out of them in the moment. Any missed opportunities were more easily smoothed over because: “HEY! Remember when we did the One Thing that was most important to us today?? How FUN was that??”
